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With this holiday coming to an end, I have learned more than what I’ve thought I would – but it is a sheer impossibility to get it all written here. However, I learned something new that is perpetually put on a real-life arena wherever I go and had happened couple of times recently in my life.
All this simplified into a phrase.
“Familiarity breeds contempt” .
Everyone has been a subject of this before and may be bound to that in future. Likewise, this is nothing new but when a new label comes to me, its feels uncomfortable – some kind of unprecedented emotion I really cannot express.
I know this is inherent in all of us to label others mentally. But a sad thing is that…why are we so restricted by that very label, that we gradually lose our respect for another gradually. I just realised we do it unknowingly but the action itself is not only unjustifiable and also lacks commonsense. Why are we losing respect for one another with the label we are restricted to and don’t our actions more likely to be based on labels we make and we are so often used to it, we think we know another being but in fact we don’t. With people changing all the time but the mindset don’t – its an unspoken conflict waiting to be ensued. Won’t labeling restrict changes to be made? In fact it negates change. Thus the sheer lack of commonsense in our subconscious doing yet it is the norm. I’m not only a victim but a culprit of this.
With 65 hours left to exams, I think my final preparation is getting more productive or it starts to feel productive. Somehow, all thanks to stress, it finally become something productive. I will prepare furthur later. Its my break from all the writing.
I am a happy person now. Because I almost achieved balance in life. Almost. It isn’t so hard to be happy, neither it is easy to be either. And I am thinking of changing the malcontent in my blog title. Maybe after exams, I should inject more life into the blog with more photos.
Bye people! Live your life. Make every second worthwhile.
P.S. Real mature to the person impersonating my name (and horribly mispelt too) tagging on my friends tagboards.
